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Jun 9Liked by Courtney Snyder MD

Dr. Courtney, This is so helpful in putting the pieces together for my family. My 23andme genetic test reflects low empathy in my genes. I have worked hard over the decades to learn empathy from friends as there was little to none growing up. Thanks again for explaining how these puzzle pieces fit together.

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Thank you, Jean, for letting me know that. I'm so glad you found this helpful . It sounds like you've found some very meaningful friendships.

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We all have healthy narcissistic needs. Attention and validation. But its a problem when someone creates an entire identity with the sole purpose of acquiring attention and validation through inauthentic means.

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Hi John. Yes. I agree. Today I heard someone say authenticity is the "highest vibration." I'm not sure if that can be measured, but I do think our unconscious mind /body sense when someone is authentic and when someone sadly doesn't have access to that way of being. Thanks for commenting.

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Many of us get forced into inauthentic ways of being as kids.

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